an open letter to..
WELL. I have to start off by saying this: Not many people succeed in making me angry. I mean really make my blood boil. In that sense, I have to congratulate you on your wonderful achievement. You ask my friends, and most describe me as easygoing. Thanks to your choice comments, you have become the first person to really irritate me. I believe you should get a medal for that. (Round of applause)
With that, I have to give you credit for your choice comments. Firstly, ask around. Who in the world likes to be slammed? You must think I do. You ridicule my plans and without even looking at it for 3mins you start finding fault with it. You jolly well know that I do not have much experience in planning things such as freaking sentry duty. Instead of nicely pointing out my mistakes, you have to put them in such a way that my mistakes are punishable by law. Well what a nice way of encouraging me along. THANK YOU.
Secondly, when giving your feedback, you just have to aim a whole lot of criticism at me. "You are very rude", "You dont treat your teammates well", "You dont give a shit about what your teammates have to say". Wow thanks man. Yes I know some of my comments are not pleasing, but they sure are not rude. If I dont treat my teammates well, how come I am on good terms with almost everyone? How come no one has accused me of lacking a team spirit before today? Would I still be asking for everyone's opinion if I dont care what they think or feel? Would I still be so offended by your comments? HELL NO.
Thirdly, do NOT impose your comments on others. After you slam me you have the cheek and the audacity to ask if I can swallow your comments. Well the way I see it if I said no you would have continued about my attitude and thus make me even madder still. I thus gracefully accept your comments. I would like you to know that the only thing stopping me from retorting and rebutting everything you said is the fact that you are a sir. Make no mistake about it, if it had been someone else totally unrelated and who had never worked with me in the past that made those comments I would have totally embarrassed him or her right there and then on the opt.This is NPCC and in it, I will give you the respect your rank deserves but outside of NP, you have just lost ALL my respect, if there ever was, for you as a fellow human being.
I would just like to drop a gentle reminder: NEVER EVER EVER EVER insult another person's character or put across such brazen comments that make yours truly sound so chauvinistic. I would like to remind you that you have never worked alongside me before and my way of talking to others is one and the same; as that I treat everyone equally. Why I answered their queries in such a manner, well let me remind you that everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion and I just find their queries not very well thought out and had no grounds to worry.
It isnt the criticisms that I'm angry about. Rather, it's more about the things you said which apparently you never stopped to consider how I would feel. And I also think it's right down crude to ask if I can take your comments when you jolly well never spared a thought before you made those right down crappy comments. I AM a team player and how I display it is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.
Being a sir means to guide and lead your cadets in the best way possible. That's the kind of sir which I would respect in and out of NP. If being a sir gave me the right to slam and make crude remarks, I would much rather NOT be one.
